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Susan Meeker-Lowry's avatar

I’m so tired of all the “gotcha’s”. People who either like or don’t have many issues with the current regime’s tactics - on everything from immigration to taking that chainsaw to agencies, organizations, programs, even clawing back funds already distributed before t took over. Because, well, things weren’t perfect, were they? This country was far from perfect, and our imperfections have and are causing damage, pain, destruction. Some of them have been MAJOR - much of my work over the decades was about shining a light on these and offering alternatives. But . . . trashing everything makes no sense. So if I say something like I oppose the defunding of libraries, the “gotcha” might be: local communities fund libraries, so what is the problem? The reality is local governments do fund their libraries, it’s often part of what we vote on at town hall when the budge is or isn’t passed. But the defunding takes money away from some of the most important stuff libraries do. And locals aren’t going to be able to afford taking on additional costs. It will be poor, non-white communities who will be hardest hit and there will be closures. Museums were also part of that particular defunding. My point is, these arguments go nowhere, they’re circular and there are so many issues that go like this it’s exhausting to me. It’s getting to the point where I don’t even want to talk about what’s going on. I’d rather take that time to focus on other things, even if it’s just watching the many species of birds who visit my feeders on the balcony right now. I’m useless if I can’t find some peace in my heart, if the chatter takes my energy out of play, if you know what I mean. The challenge is how to gracefully move conversations from the “gotcha’s” to whatever comes next.

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Laura Fenton's avatar

Wait is "m'aider" the root of a distress call of May Day! May Day! I did not know this!

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